5

After 2 years of dating and 3 years of living together, me and Joel have been together for 5 years on 21 Mar 2008. :D

This year, we didn't have any celebration because his granny Mama Jenny passed away on 20 Mar 2008.

And since 24 Mar, we're back dating again.. :)

During the weekdays, i'm at my mom's and working my ass off. And on weekends, i'm with him and Peanut. You see, we've been having conflicts so much so that we literally cannot see eye to eye. It was tough and sour.. Almost every other day, we will disagree with each other and end up sleeping with a heavy heart. And that's no good! After many thoughts and confessions, we knew that we were so 'used' to each other that we took each other for granted. Habit, bad. It was either stay or leave. I chose to STAY AND BE HAPPY.

We decided that it is best we only see each other on weekends and on weekdays, it's me and my work and for Joel, its him and his networkings.

Although it feels weird in the beginning, i kinda enjoy the space i have now and for him, he definitely enjoy the freedom he has. And most importantly, i felt 'wanted' again.. It couldn't get any better.. :)